Most young infants, up to seven months, adapt to caring adults
and seldom have problems adjusting to good child care. Older
infants may be upset when left with strangers. They may feel
separation anxiety, which is a normal part of development for
some children. They will need extra time and your support to
"get to know" the caregiver.
Some children show changes in behavior when they start child
care. Toddlers may cry, pout, refuse to go to child care or act
angry in other ways. Preschoolers may regress and behave like a
younger child. They may be more wakeful at night. This behavior
usually goes away after a few days or weeks in high-quality
child care.
You can help your child adjust to a new child care
arrangement. Arrange a visit with in-home caregivers while you
are at home or when you need child care for a short time. Visit
the center or family child care home that you have chosen with
your child before beginning care. Show your child that you like
and trust the caregiver.
Some children like to carry a reminder of home when they go
to child care. A family photograph or small toy can be helpful.
Talking to your child about child care and the caregiver is
helpful. Being prepared makes any new experience easier for
children. There also are storybooks about child care that you
and your child can read together. (Check with your local
library.)
After a child has been in child care, a sudden change in
caregivers may be upsetting. This can happen even if the new
caregiver is kind and competent. If you are concerned about your
child's feelings, you may want to arrange a meeting with the
caregiver or ask your pediatrician for advice. Parents need to
help the caregivers and the child deal with any changes in the
child's routine at home or child care.
High-quality child care helps children grow in every way and
promotes their physical, social and mental development. It
offers support to working parents. Your pediatrician wants your
child to grow and develop with enjoyment in a setting that
supports you as a parent.
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