By this age, you and your baby should be well on the way toward
an established sleep pattern. Most likely the pattern includes
at least two naps a day and at least seven or eight hours at the
longest stretch of nighttime sleep.
During these months, your baby will learn to roll over and
position himself for sleep in his own way. Toward the end of
this period, he may be able to keep himself awake or be kept
awake by his surroundings, so this is the time to instill good
sleep habits by sticking to a bedtime routine.
How long will my baby sleep?
While research shows the average number of hours slept at
this age is 13 per day, the range of normal is quite wide, with
some babies sleeping only nine hours a day and others sleeping
as much as 18. And we all know which end of the spectrum parents
like best!
If left up to the baby, daily naps will last as long as your
baby needs them to be. Again, some babies will nap 20 minutes,
others a few hours. The naps will usually help prevent a baby
from becoming too cranky to sleep well at night, and they will
help your baby (and you) enjoy his waking hours more.
Most babies this age like to nap once in the morning, then
again sometime after lunch. If you feel the napping is
interfering with your baby's bedtime, wake him from his
afternoon nap a little earlier each day. This way you can
gradually induce him to sleep a little longer at night. Try to
keep your baby stimulated during the late afternoon and early
evening.
Where and how should my baby sleep?
By this age, your baby is picking his own position for sleep.
Keep pillows and large stuffed animals out of his crib; they can
still cause problems for him. Check for ties and ribbons that
can wrap around his neck. Get rid of objects or toys with sharp
edges and corners. You have probably already made sure your crib
is up to present safety standards, but if you haven't, check it
out.
Once your baby is pulling himself up using the sides of the
crib, it's time to remove the soft bumper cushions around the
crib and the mobiles hanging over it. The bumpers can give your
baby a dangerous "leg up" for climbing out of the crib
and falling, and babies can get tangled up in hanging mobiles.
Don't forget to look around for the things that your baby can
touch from a standing position in his crib. Wall hangings,
pictures, draperies, and window blind cords can all be
potentially harmful if they are left within your baby's reach.
What should I do?
You have probably already established a bedtime routine, and
you're staying with it. If you haven't established one, start
now. Soothing activities that lead up to "night-night"
time can help relax your baby. A warm bath followed by stories
or singing will signal transition to sleep, and these same
activities can be used at bedtime for years.
At this age, you will probably want your baby to start
falling asleep on his own, if he doesn't already. This may mean
performing your nighttime routine and putting him into his crib
while he's still awake. If he cries, let him be for a few
minutes. He may settle down and go to sleep. If the crying
continues, go back in and soothe him for a moment, without
picking him up. This may go on a few times until your baby
figures out that the crying is not getting him anywhere.
Even a baby who has already been sleeping through the night
(anywhere from seven to 12 hours) will occasionally awaken in
the wee hours. After ruling out teething pain, illness, or an
extremely soiled diaper, it's best to let your baby struggle
back to sleep on his own. Give him a few fussy minutes before
you respond; once you respond, and if you see that he's OK,
leave him to his own devices. Don't forget that any cuddling,
feeding or talking that you do may prompt your baby to wake each
night for this attention.
If your baby is waking up many times each night, perhaps
there is an external reason. Is he too big for the bassinet?
Move him to a full-size crib. Do you still have him in your
bedroom? He may be sensitive to your presence and may need to be
put in his own room to get a good night's sleep. Is his room too
warm? Too cold? Too dark? Explore these possibilities.
Another common sleep "problem" at this age is the
early riser - the baby who begins to babble or cry for you
before the crack of dawn. There is probably nothing you can do
to prevent your baby from getting up when he's ready, but a few
safe toys in his crib may soothe him for a while longer, and a
window shade to keep out the first light of day may let you get
another few minutes of early morning rest.
When to call the doctor?
If you have ruled out external reasons for your baby's
nighttime waking and you still think he's not sleeping enough
(or even too much!), don't hesitate to call your pediatrician.
Teething pain is a common reason for sleep problems at this age,
and your doctor may be able to suggest some ways to relieve your
baby's discomfort. Perhaps there is an illness involving no
symptoms besides sleeplessness, or perhaps your doctor can help
you see some possibilities for enhancing your nighttime routine
with your baby.